
MJ's Fighting for More Time. A LIVING Kidney Donor Could Change Everything
Learn how to donate and make a difference today.
MJ's Fighting for More Time. A LIVING Kidney Donor Could Change Everything
Learn how to donate and make a difference today.

Learn how to donate and make a difference today.
Learn how to donate and make a difference today.
My name is Mary Jo. I’m a mother, a real estate professional, and someone who has spent the last fifteen years living with deep appreciation for the life I was given. When I was 24, my kidneys failed due to a rare genetic disorder that has affected six members of my family, including my mother and brother. The gift of a deceased donor gave me a second chance, One I never took for granted.
For the past fifteen years, I’ve poured myself into my community, built a career I love, and had the incredible joy of raising my son. That gift allowed me to live, grow, and show up for the people I care about.
But now, the kidney that saved my life is failing.
Because I am blood type O, finding a compatible donor is especially difficult. Type O is the universal donor, but O recipients can typically only receive from another O donor, which often means longer wait times and fewer available matches.
I cannot endure another decade on dialysis, as I did before my first transplant.
So this time, I’m doing something that is hard for me.
I’m asking for help.
This is the story behind the journey and
why finding a kidney donor means life for me.
A living donor kidney lasts longer, functions better, and would allow me to receive a transplant before my health declines further. A living donor could mean the difference between years of waiting or having the chance to keep living the life I’ve fought hard for.
Being vulnerable and asking for something so life-changing is difficult. But my desire to live, to continue caring for my son who has cerebral palsy, and to stay present for his future is stronger than my fear of asking.
A living donor kidney would give me the chance to be the mother he needs and the future we both deserve.


SAVING A LIFE MIGHT BE SIMPLER THAN YOU THINK
Donors can live full, healthy lives with one kidney. All medical costs for the evaluation and surgery are covered. You can start by completing a confidential questionnaire — it doesn’t commit you to anything. You can talk to a donor advocate who is just there to support you. You can remain anonymous if you prefer.
If you’re curious about what it means to be a living donor, you can learn more
The more people who see Mary Jo’s message, the greater the chance of finding a match. Share her video on your social channels, at work, or within your community.
If you’re curious about what it means to be a living donor, you can learn more here:
Even if you’re not sure you’re eligible, the hospital team can help you figure it out.
I am under the care of the transplant team at St. Michael’s Hospital.
If you or someone you know is willing to explore kidney donation, the team there can guide you through every step — confidentially and without any obligation.
Becoming a living kidney donor starts with a simple, private screening process. It is confidential, non-binding, and handled directly by the transplant team — not by me.
At St. Michael’s Hospital, the first step typically includes:
A short online or phone assessment to verify basic medical compatibility.
Because I am type O, an O donor is required.
If the initial screening looks good, the hospital guides you through health testing to make sure donation is safe for you.
Potential donors receive counseling, education, and full medical support.
All medical costs for the donor evaluation and surgery are covered.
Please reach us at mjvradis@gmail.com if you cannot find an answer to your question.
Even if you’re not a direct match, you can still help by donating through the paired exchange program, which matches multiple donors and recipients. You canalso share my story. Many successful transplants happen because someone forwarded a link or mentioned a patient to a friend.
Most donors return to regular activities within weeks and go on to live full, healthy lives with one kidney. The transplant team ensures that donation is medically safe for every approved donor.
No. All testing and medical expenses related to the donation are covered by the transplant program. In many cases, travel and lost wages may also be eligible for reimbursement.
Yes. Donors can choose to remain completely anonymous if they prefer.
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Asking for help is the most vulnerable thing I’ve ever done. I’m fighting for more time with my son, to keep showing up for my community, and for the everyday moments a working kidney makes possible.
If you or someone you know might consider being evaluated, it could mean everything.
Thank you so much for taking the time to listen to my story
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